Tuesday, June 26, 2018

Getting Through Transitions


Based on 1 Samuel 17:32-49
First delivered June 24, 2018

Rev. Dr. Kevin Orr



            Israel found themselves in a stalemate. They were squared up against the army of the Philistines on land that had a high level of economic and strategic importance. It was land that Israel really needed to secure. But nobody wanted to fight. Both the Philistines and Israel held steady. It was as if everyone was waiting for the other side to blink, or to accidentally shoot an arrow to trigger the battle. But no one was budging. They just all stood there, frozen, not knowing what to do.

            This stalemate on the battlefield revealed the frustration that everyone in Israel must have felt during this time of transition. What I mean is, there was no leadership. Saul was still technically their king. He should have been out there, leading the charge. But he was nowhere to be seen. He was abdicating his responsibility. Yet one more sign of his failure as a king. And because he was not assuming his position of leadership everything was at a standstill. Israel was stuck. In times of transition, including transitions of leadership, there is great potential to get stuck in place. With nobody calling the shots, nobody knows what to do or whether they should make a move. Being stuck like this, with no leadership and no direction, is very frustrating.

            There is something else with transition that this deadlock reveals and that is fear. It appears that the Israelites were afraid of this well-organized and solid Philistine army. And they were certainly afraid of their champion Goliath. Israel’s future did not look good. They feared for their lives. Everyone was afraid to fight Goliath one-on-one, knowing for sure they would be killed. They feared becoming an enslaved people again. They were afraid of losing all that they had gained. Leaderless and with no good options. That’s a good recipe for fear.

            Well, if David has any fear, it does not block him from responding. He is by no means frozen in place. Maybe it was his youthful exuberance. Maybe he was naïve about the predicament that Israel found themselves in. Or maybe it was because he already knew that he was a king in waiting, anointed, filled with the Spirit, and confident of his future as well as the future of Israel. Whatever it was, David was not intimidated by Goliath or the Philistine army. Instead, in this context of frustration and fear, David was full of confidence. He had a serious amount of intestinal fortitude.

            Where does his confidence come from? Surely his confidence was not placed in Saul. And he may not have had a lot of confidence in Israel’s army. He seemed to have a bit of confidence in himself. At least that’s what he is projecting to Saul when he expresses doubt that David has the capacity to face down and defeat Goliath. David said that there were times when he had to face down lions and bears as a shepherd. If one of those beasts took one of his sheep he would smash it in the mouth and take that sheep out of their jaws. And if they confronted him he could kill that lion or bear with his bare hands. Really? That sounds a bit preposterous. But I don’t think David’s confidence only was in his fighting abilities against wild beasts.

            No, his confidence was rooted in God. He knew that the God that had led Israel out of slavery in Egypt, who had worked all kinds of powerful signs and wonders, who had led Israel to this point of possessing the land of promise, that surely God would somehow make a way out of no way to deliver Israel from this Philistine army and their champion Goliath. It didn’t matter how dire the situation looked. God was greater than the Philistines and their gods. So that is why David was so confident that he could beat Goliath. He knew that the battle belongs to the Lord.

            However, David also knew that this battle that the Lord would win had to be fought by Israel. God wasn’t going to bring a big hand down from the sky and fling the Philistines aside like they were a bunch of toy soldiers. No, Israel would have to engage the Philistines in battle. Or, more specifically, someone was going to have to confront Goliath. God would take out Goliath. But it would be through the effort of David, since no one else was stepping up.

            When we go through times of transition, either as an individual, a family, or even as a church, David demonstrates for us the value of having confidence in God. No matter how frustrating or fearful a time of transition is, God is sufficient. God is able to make a way out of no way. Not by magic. Not by coercion. God gets us through times of transition by working through the efforts of those who place their confidence in God. That’s so important in the uncertain times of transition: to put your confidence in God and then act. Find a place where help is needed, where you can contribute, and dig in. It is those who have confidence in God who have to step up.

            So with confidence in God, David steps up to do what needs done, which is to face down and kill Goliath. David doesn’t just run out there on his own, however. He knows the protocol. He needs Saul’s permission since he is still the king after all, even though he isn’t acting very king-like. Saul tries to talk David out of it but probably not too hard. I doubt if Saul wants to be shown up by some kid. Saul knew this was a fool’s errand, no matter what David said about the battle belonging to the Lord or his supposed ability to kill lions and bears with his own hands. It’s probably for the best. David the shepherd boy would be the sacrificial lamb. Israel would be enslaved by the Philistines. Hopefully Saul will be able to work out some deal to at least stay alive. They would all muddle through somehow. So Saul has David try on his armor and strap on his sword. It may give the boy some protection. And, who knows. This may work out for Saul. See, if David goes out there wearing Saul’s armor, including having the visor down on the helmet so no one can see his face, Israel may think that is Saul out there facing down Goliath. But when “Saul” gets killed and everyone is in a panic, Saul could run away and hide somewhere to bide his time. Maybe someday he will be able to put together a mercenary army who could then go in there and wipe out the Philistines when they least expect it. Then he would deliver the people from slavery and be a great hero.

            But, that’s not going to happen. David tries Saul’s stuff on but it’s not a good fit. It weighs him down. It doesn’t feel right. And David isn’t a swordsman so that won’t do him any good. No, David decides to let Saul keep his things. David will confront Goliath with his own clothing and his own gear. He’s no warrior. He doesn’t need to pretend he is someone else. David has the wisdom to know he just needs to be himself. David knew he didn’t need to be someone else. He knew that God could use him to win this battle just as he was. So whatever ruse Saul might have been planning doesn’t pan out. David was confident that God could use him just as he was to win this battle.

            But, you know, it was a smart move for David to stick with who he is because it gave David an advantage over Goliath. For one thing, not being weighed down with all that armor, David could move quickly. It would be easier for him to dodge Goliath’s blows with his great sword. But, the chance of Goliath even getting that close would be avoided because David’s weapon of choice was not something that he would need to be close to Goliath to use. No, David’s slingshot was basically a missile launcher. He would be able to hit Goliath far away from his swing. David would be able to take down Goliath before Goliath could ever get in range to do any damage to him. Goliath, of course, helped David out by not lowering the visor on his helmet, leaving his big forehead vulnerable for a well-placed river stone. And with one shot, Goliath goes down. I would say God might have had a little hand in nudging that stone along.

            But now look. After this great victory, of David taking down the mighty Goliath, the people don’t grab a throne and a crown and put David on it. No, he still is a king in waiting. Saul, their “leader” who was hanging out in his tent while all this was going on remains their king. The time of transition continues in spite of this great triumph of David’s. Transitions can take a lot longer than we wish. People in positions of power and authority don’t drift away quickly or easily. And now that David has accomplished this great feat of valor, he now has Saul’s attention in a big way. Let’s just say Saul isn’t as enthusiastic as everyone else. David has proved himself to be a threat. And for quite some time after this victory on the battle field, Saul will seek out ways to get rid of David. So, yes, one victory wasn’t enough to end this time of transition for the people Israel. Transitions can be frustrating. They can be scary. And they can stretch out for a long while.

            So, whenever we find ourselves in times of transition, whether that be a change in employment, or a change of bosses, or a change in relationship status, say from married to widowhood, able bodied to disabled in some way, whatever that change is, what can we learn from David?

            The first thing we learn is to trust in God. No matter what transition you are having to move through, no matter how frustrating or scary, believe that God is able. Believe that God always desires what is the very best for you. Believe that God is on your side, fighting alongside you, always at work trying to make a way forward that will be a great blessing for you. It’s important to put your trust in other people who care about you. It’s important to trust your own instincts and abilities. But most important of all, trust in God, who is our deliverer, our rock, our anchor in the storms of transition.

            Second, do not be afraid. Or, if that’s not realistic, try not to let your fears freeze you into inaction or to panic. Courage is the capacity to act in spite of fear. Fear has its benefits. It prevents us from doing stupid stuff. It is an alarm bell signifying that there is danger. Fear is a built in warning system for us. But that doesn’t mean that when the fear alarm goes off we need to curl into a ball, close and lock the doors of our life and hide until the fear goes away. Times of transition are scary because we are moving into the unknown. It’s prudent to be careful when you venture into the unknown. But not venturing in is not an option. Transitions happen to us and we have to make our way through them the best we can. Fear reminds us that we are in a dangerous space. But we have to find the intestinal fortitude, helped along by our trust in God, to move forward in spite of our fear. That’s what courage is.

            Trust in God. Do not be afraid. And third, be yourself. Do what you can to move forward in times of transition. David knew he didn’t need to be a mighty warrior to take out Goliath. He was convinced that God could use him for that purpose just as he was, a shepherd boy. If you have some courage and are true to yourself, God can work with that. But you do have to do something. Don’t be like the Israelite army and just stand around. Look around and see what is a positive productive thing you can do in whatever transition you find yourself and do that. God is right there with you to help you as you respond the best way you know how. And don’t say things like, “But, I’m not (fill in the blank)” or “but I can’t (fill in the blank).” If you trust God and act with courage, then you are making yourself available for what God wants to accomplish through you. God can work with you just as you are. You don’t have to be anyone other than yourself.

            And finally, remember that times of transition can last longer than you would like. Most of us crave order and certainty. We have our routines. We have our relationships that mean so much to us. We have our skills and abilities that we count on to function. And when we lose any of this and we enter into a time of transition, it throws our lives out of whack. No one wants to live in a time of chaos and uncertainty for long. But, guess what. Transitions are going to take as long as they need to take and we have little say on how long that is. And if you think about it our lives are just one long transition from one phase of life to the next, until our life ends and we enter into the transition into the life to come. So maybe we shouldn’t think that if we just hold on and muddle through somehow everything will sort itself out and life will be well ordered and certain. I kind of think such a life doesn’t last long. No, I think we all need to settle in to the reality that our whole life is one big transition. So to make it through, let’s take the lessons from David: trust God, do not be afraid, be yourself and do what you can do. And settle in for the lifelong adventure of transitions.


Tuesday, June 19, 2018

A King in Waiting


Based on 1 Samuel 15:34-16:13
Rev. Dr. Kevin Orr



            Things didn’t work out for Saul, the man whom God had appointed to be the first king of Israel. He offered up an unlawful sacrifice to God. He made rash oaths. He rebelled against what God instructed him to do. He was stubborn and greedy. He lacked the character of a king. And the people suffered for it. Saul is an example of wasted potential. Because of how Saul had performed as a king, the time was approaching toward crisis. These were challenging times for the people.

            As Samuel the elder looked upon the state of the people, and the failures of the man he anointed to be king, he was struck with grief. It was so sad and disappointing how things had gone. Sitting alone at his house, Samuel wept, hurting for his people. But Samuel wasn’t the only one who was grieving. God also was grieving over how things were turning out. In fact, we read in scripture that God regretted selecting Saul to be the king. How could God be regretful? Didn’t the all-knowing God have prior knowledge that things would turn out this way? Regret presumes that things don’t go as planned. So we learn something about God here. God selected Saul because God knew the potential Saul had to be a great and faithful king. That was the plan. But free will means that God’s expectations don’t always pan out. Even God can realize that in hindsight God would have done something different. It’s not that God made a mistake. It’s just that Saul failed to be who God knew he could be. And so, God grieved over Saul and regretted having him anointed.

            But God did not stew in God’s grief for long. Even though things didn’t work out, God wasn’t giving up. God was already at work, planning the next move, for the sake of God’s people. God remains engaged, even though nothing is working out as God originally intended. You might remember that God never intended that the people have a king. God was their king. They didn’t need a human king. But the people wanted to be like all the other peoples, so they demanded a king of their own. Even though this went against God’s purposes, God responded to the pleas of the people and selected someone for Samuel to anoint as king. It reminds me of where Paul describes the characteristics of love, saying that love does not insist on its own way.

            Now that things have gone badly, God didn’t petulantly say, “See, I told you so!” Until the people said to God that they no longer wanted a king, God knew that there would be need for another king to take Saul’s place when he dies. So God went to work, to find someone to take Saul’s place. That’s another thing we learn about God. God works with what is, not with how God wishes things were. God deals with reality and works with the situation as it is to make things the best they can be. God is always at work trying to make the best of every situation. This demonstrates the grace and faithfulness of God. When Adam and Eve were expelled from Eden because of their rebellion, God provided clothing for them. When Moses shattered the stone tablets upon which were etched the Ten Commandments in his rage against the people who had made the golden calf, God later provided another set. And when the first king God provided failed to live up to what a king should be, God provided another. God never walks away. God keeps on doing what God can do to provide a future with hope.

            Now while Samuel was still at home grieving, God was already prepared to move forward. That includes giving Samuel an assignment. God says to Samuel, “Why are you still grieving over Saul? I have rejected him as king. Fill your horn with oil and get yourself to Bethlehem.” Was God irritated with Samuel? I don’t think so. When God asked Samuel that question about why he is still grieving over Saul, I imagine God said that out of a place of empathy. After all, God had been grieving too. And I bet God was still grieving, even as God was preparing to move forward. Everyone grieves differently. And there is a need to be still and sit in our grief. But we can’t sit in our grief forever. Even though grief lingers, we have to move forward with our lives. We have to keep on living. So I believe it is with gentleness that God asks the question of Samuel and gives him something to do that is helpful. God’s assignment for Samuel is to take part in the next faithful step toward a better future for God’s people. I can imagine that both God and now Samuel start taking the steps necessary to change things for the better even though the heaviness of grief remains on their hearts.

            And move forward they did. God had seen enough. Saul was rejected by God as the king. Someone had to take Saul’s place. A transition of leadership needed to occur. But God wasn’t going to wait until Saul was dead to make the move. You remember earlier I said that God is always engaged, trying to make any situation better. What I mean is that God is constantly engaged and responding. It doesn’t seem to be God’s character to sit around and wait things out. Of course, God decided not to arrange for Saul’s assassination either. Instead, God decided to go ahead and select Saul’s replacement and have him anointed the king, even while Saul was still on the throne. God was getting things set up so that when Saul died, the transition to the next king would be as smooth as possible.

            So Samuel goes to Bethlehem with a heifer for sacrifice as a means to get Jesse and his sons together. And as Jesse’s first born son comes before Samuel, he pulls out his horn of oil, sure that this must be the one God has chosen. It makes perfect sense. Not only is Eliab the oldest son, but he looks like a king. He was tall, dark and handsome, so to speak. But he is not the one God has chosen. We find one of the best known passages of scripture, where God says, “The Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” God knows what is most important about you and me, and that is what kind of person we are on the inside. And the good news here is that there is little we can do with our physical appearance, aside various body modifications. But there is a lot about what we can do on our inside. We can make our hearts grow larger and softer. We can engage in a process of maturity that makes us more and more beautiful and noble on the inside.

            But there is something else I want to highlight. Like I said a minute ago, God didn’t wait for Saul to die before taking action. God has David anointed king but David doesn’t go straight to the throne. He becomes a king in waiting. And it will not be an easy path for David. In fact, he is about to enter into a time of great danger. He will face down Goliath. He will be engaged in battle. He will have to watch his back as Saul attempts to take his life. And through all the struggle that he will endure, he knows that he has been anointed to be king. He knows who he is destined to be even as he patiently waits for his destiny to manifest.

            There’s one more thing I want to highlight about David. We read that when he was anointed by Samuel, that the Spirit came upon him and continued to pour out on him from that day forward. That does not typically happen in those days. Saul received an outpouring of the Spirit, but only on a couple occasions. For David it is non-stop. The Spirit will continue to come upon David day by day, an ever fresh outpouring of the Spirit of life. It is as if God is going all out to make sure that David has what he needs to be successful so that he doesn’t turn out like Saul did. And, as it turns out, David becomes the gold standard when it comes to being king, in spite of his deep flaws. David was far from perfect. But with God’s help, and that continuous outpouring of the Spirit, David was the best king Israel ever had.

            And this is where I want to bring you and me into this story. If you think about it, our situation has some points of contact with David’s. First of all, just as David is a king, you and I are royalty as well. You remember I talked about this a few weeks ago. Peter identifies us as a royal priesthood. Paul said that we are co-heirs with Christ, who is our king. We have a royal identity.

            Second, just as the Spirit was poured continually onto David, so we are continuously receiving an outpouring of the Spirit. When the church came online that Pentecost, and the Spirit came down upon all who were gathered in that room, Peter declared that the Spirit is now being poured out on all people. The Spirit of God has been set loose in the world. That same Spirit is filling us, day by day. Oh we can squash the Spirit that is within us by our own willfulness or inattentiveness. But we are vessels of the Holy Spirit. Clay vessels to be sure. But the Spirit of God is being poured into us continuously, as God has determined to do. God does everything God knows to do to help us be all God desires us to be.

            And last, just as David was a king in waiting, having to go through a time of struggle and danger during the time of transition until he became king, so we are royals in waiting. One day we will reign with Christ. But now we have to live out our lives in struggle and danger. We know who we are. We are children of God. We are destined to share in the coming reign of God. Until then, we have to face our Goliaths. We have to fight some battles. We have to contend with the occasional betrayal. Sometimes some of us have to watch our backs. But as we live out our lives through this time of transition, from this life to the life to come, we can live it with confidence because we too have the Spirit of God to guide and strengthen us all along the way.